It is difficult to stay focused on the present when we continue to allow the past to be a distraction. The past only takes place in our mind through our memories and only has the power we give it. In fact, most of our breakdowns come from just that place of memories and since we think in form of images, remembering is like experiencing the moment again.
This is what happens: we cancel the creative energy with fear that prevents us from exposing ourselves by creating stationary brakes. As a result, we invest more time defending ourselves from life, repairing circumstances – instead of investing our life preparing ourselves and experiencing it in its entire splendor.
So, what to do? How can we stay in the present, empowering our dreams?
Invest your thought energy in what you love not in what you fear. This supports you to focus as much as possible on winning both intelligent and creative solutions in a challenging situation. Where your attention goes, your energy goes. Where your thoughts go, your words and your actions go. Make sure you cultivate good thinking, invest only in your growth because your focus defines your direction.
Ask yourself the difficult questions. Do not depend on someone else to formulate them for you. This gives you an advantage and keeps you alert in the present, making it easier to start with what you have at hand.
The difficult questions are the questions that take us away from our comfort zone, focus our commitment and challenge our will. They bring awareness and usually point us in the right direction.
So ask!
Use the question as a tool of awareness and change for your life.
Correct. Make changes before the change becomes necessary. If you change your strategies but do not make adjustments in your choices (and priorities) you will still have the same results. The most relevant corrections usually are not about strategy but about character. The higher quality of our character, the better quality of our choices – consequently – the greater the possibility of realizing our dreams.
Avoid “Shortcuts”. The longest distance between you and your dreams are the shortcuts. Nothing will be simple if we keep choosing the easy way of doing things. The process is what gives us experience, influence, understanding and relevance. There is no other way. Live the process! Take the lead! Do not underestimate the potential of either.
Eliminate from your agenda everything you should not be doing and eliminate from your life people who do not add you in any way. The sources of influence in your life matter. Why? Because impact your thinking style and your results. That’s a lot of influence! Take care of the relationships that add to your well-being and learn to say “no” to those that drain you.
With this in mind, be sure to keep your focus where it matters and what matters in your present! When the opportunity comes to our life there is no time to prepare. We better be ready, alert and aware to choose the right path. Put it into practice and the past will no longer be a distraction to develop your greatest potential!